Initiate The Second Date

Remember what we said about staying the course? Yeah, the second date is part of it and is a very big deal. By asking her out again, you are showing the girl that you are very much interested in her and that you are sincere in your thoughts and actions as you progress through this course. But the thing about a second date is that it has to trump the first date. Meaning you have to go all out, or at least put a little more effort than you did on your first date. A romantic date at a restaurant and a movie afterward is an example of a nice itinerary.

Now you may also want to be a little more daring this time, and the girl will also be expecting this as well. If the mood is right and the environment is perfect, you can kiss her. For example, you’re about to take her home and as she’s about to get out of the car, you both lean in for a hug. Then your faces are slightly closer than anticipated, you look at each other’s eyes, and just as soon as her eyes over your lips, plant the kiss… SLOWLY.

End the night with just that. Your first ever memorable kiss with that girl. If she invites you in, politely decline by saying “not tonight, but next time”. You want to end the evening on a meaningful note and not make it feel like a hookup.