Keep Her Hooked

Some people make the mistake of setting up a certain time frame before they get in touch with their potential partners, or in this case, calling or texting a girl back after a date. It’s completely unnecessary. You don’t want to set a time limit because you don’t want to make her feel like she’s a scheduled obligation. You want to make her feel special. Something as simple as “Hey, I just thought of you when I saw this book and I thought I’d send you a text message. How are you?”

When you’re having a conversation through call or text, it’s important that you be the one to end it. This will give her the impression that you set aside a special time to get in touch with her and that you have to go back to whatever it is you were doing (e.g. back to your video game or your workout).

Remember to also keep the conversations as deep and as meaningful as possible. Don’t just send her a text about the weather or what happened to your favorite sports teams.