Some men have something in their nature that just makes them irresistible to women, others have always had some moderate success with women but are not confident that they can just go out and meet someone and some just never pull it off. With very hard work any man, regardless of physical appearance, can become a womanizer. This is usually a process of self-change that requires allot of endurance. However, being just someone who is simply good with women is far from being rocket science. The following tips are easy to process and practice. Some of them are obvious truths that we just forget and some of them might make you realize what you are doing wrong or how you can improve your behaviour in a manner that will make women fall for you. Enjoy!
Be Comfortable Alone
Being alone doesn’t mean being sad. In fact, one of the easiest ways to build self-confidence is to learn how to be comfortable alone. Why are we saying this when we’re actually trying to get a girlfriend? When you’re all by yourself, you begin to realize what makes you YOU. You learn about your personality, your attitude, your coping skills, and even get a glimpse of how people see you. It is this kind of introspection that helps you avoid feelings of insecurity and jealousy and develop a sense of independence, which can help you in the long run.
Besides, sometimes your best wingman might not be available the next time you go to a bar, so you might as well learn how to work your magic. That’s the beauty of being comfortable alone.
Help Someone
Clichéd as it may sound, there’s nothing a girl likes more than prince charming coming to her rescue. You don’t have to fight the guy harassing her at the bar to impress her, but all it takes is a little effort to help them. Is your love interest your next door neighbor and is she carrying ten bags of groceries? Give her a hand. Is she having a hard time lighting the grill on fire? Help her out. It’s the little things that leave a lasting impression.
Heck, even helping her wash the car works! Just make sure that you don’t do all of them…
Approach Tons Of Girls On A Consistent Basis
There are a lot of fish in the sea, and you just have to narrow your sights down to one fish. But this doesn’t mean that you have to stop meeting and talking to other girls once you’ve set your eyes on someone. When you approach girls on a consistent basis, it builds up your self-confidence because you’re able to talk to other girls with ease. We’re not saying that you turn them into your girlfriends, but there’s no harm in having girl friends.
Avoid Being Afraid To Fail
We really can’t remember the number of times we got rejected by girls. Sometimes, guys take it too seriously when they get rejected by a girl or even being ignored by one. Remember, she’s not the only hot girl in your area. Brush off rejection like a man, take a few deep breaths, and move on to the next target.
